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Monday, November 9, 2009
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This is Wild!!!!!!!
Friday, November 6, 2009
Party in the USA
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Mac Miller - Throw It On the Rack
Mac Miller, Franchise, & Vintage - New School Pimp Shit (prod. James Moore)
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Who can spit on this?
Monday, November 2, 2009
CONFIDENCE IS KEY!
I LIKE THIS GUY && WORD ON THE STREET IS HE LIKES ME TOO. NEITHER OF US HAS ADMITTED TO EACH OTHER THAT THE FEELING IS MUTUAL -- BUT, WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER THE CHEMISTRY IS OBVIOUS. THE PROBLEM IS I DON'T KNOW HOW TO APPROACH HIM. I GET SCARED TO CALL OR TEXT HIM BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY && HE'S YET TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. MUTUAL FRIENDS OF OURS SEEM TO TALK ABOUT "THE POSSIBILITY OF US" MORE THAN EITHER OF US && IT'S SUPER FRUSTRATING! WHAT DO I DO??
the solution to this problem can be broken down into a few steps:
1. HAVE CONFIDENCE && MAKE THE FIRST MOVE: one thing i've learned is that even if you don't FEEL confident, if you APPEAR confident you'll get whatever you want. sure, you're terrified to call him first but if you go ahead and do it, with confidence in your voice and your expectations clear, he'll be really impressed. most times, guys are expected to do everything first. they are supposed to approach us, talk to us, call us, ask us out, pay for things... but when a female makes it a point to make the first move the guy can do nothing but be impressed with your will to go after what you want. you don't have to go out of your way to say anything special and you don't have to force conversation because if the feeling is mutual, the conversation will come naturally. if you're sitting there thinking about how nice it would be to just call and chat, then call him up, say hi... ask how his week was. if you're sitting there thinking about how cool it would be if you could hang out later this week, then call him up, let him know you're free thursday && if he's not doing anything there's a show going on that you'd think he'd like or you'd like to get lunch... WHATEVER. if he's busy, fine. don't sound upset [even if you are] and let him know that the offer is open whenever he's available. now, take a deep breath. regardless of the outcome of the conversation you can walk away knowing that you didn't let your fear of embarrassment or rejection overcome your ability to make a first move. the more you practice approaching men with confidence, the better you'll get at it. a man can't reject a female that doesn't second guess herself, a female that isn't scared to go against the norms. confidence is the best sexy.
2. STOP THE HE-SAID/SHE-SAID: you remember high school? so and so said he likes you... yeah, that's bad for business. when you are really trying to get somewhere with someone you have to do it yourself [this is where the confidence comes in again]. you must cut out the "third man" if you want your feelings to come out clear, honest, and untainted. the best way to do this is to make that first move. get over the conversation barrier and when outsiders ask questions, answer them vaguely. other than close friends, no one really needs to know what's going on. when people think they know this or think they heard that the drama begins and all chances for a possible romance are thrown out the door...
now go practice different ways to approach the guy you like && try it out... if you do all the things i've mentioned i guarantee you'll have a date later this week or your nerves will have ceased and calling him will be just as natural as eating... with enough practice you'll be quite the confident, go-gettin lady && guys will be lined up to talk to you.
don't wait to get what you want, go get it yourself... you'll feel better when you do!
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Sunday, November 1, 2009
exactly one month from now: The High Life
Falcon Henne Rap aka Ballon Boy
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Tree-J TV
The High Life
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
"Thank Me Later"
My Post Wont Format Properly so Imma Hit yall with a Link to a Langston Hughes Poem.
THE INDUSTRY: dating/living/"whatever-you-want-to-call-it" in the industry.
so this week i leave you with this:
IN THE INDUSTRY: dating/living/whatever-you-want-to-call-it in the industry.
the industry is music, fashion, photography, movies, -- we are all one. && when you enter the realm of art you are inevitably forced into a world of politics, shows, appearances--you are now in the light... no matter how big or small. there is always a beginning. whether you are guy/or girl in the industry out on the scene or the guy/girl that's involved with someone in the industry there's certain things i've noticed about both:
GIRLS/GUYS that are in the industry-- single, and available: the one thing you have to remember is to just be honest. if all you want is a regular fuck, then tell them that. if you want an open relationship and the rest of your lives isn't talked about then tell them that. if you're just busy && want nothing serious, tell them that. the key is being completely 100 when you're single. WHY LIE? you have nothing to lie about, and really nothing to explain. no matter how raw the truth-- relationships, or wifey will come along when the time is right. in the mean time, you have no one to answer to but yourself.
knowing your limits is the other half of the battle--it's kind of like knowing your liquor limits. how hard do you really want to go? quality over quantity is how you should approach it--don't lose your standards just because it's 'always available', safe sex && privacy are important. people already know you get mad butt, or atleast think you do--you don't have to be all over the place talking about it && you definitely want to make sure that you're other 'person' knows how important it is to keep things discreet...
speaking of which...
GIRLS/GUYS that are dating, following, interested in, labeled a "potential"... someone in the industry-- far and wide as the people closest to them [family, friends, crew] to the people farthest to them [acquaintance's, groupies, haters] the rule of thumb is, "DONT BE A CLING ON" [thank you, alicia] there is always a man in the relationship, as there is always the female. sometime the girl "wears the pants", and vice versa. the secret is to understand that boys will be boys, and girls will be girls. they think differently... and that's just the way it is.perfect example: if you're man is playin video games with his boys and you are mad cause he's not paying attention to you, you're being a selfish bitch. you should be asking him if he wants something to drink... chips, salsa, queso? no, really. you shouldn't even be upset in the first place && a real female knows that it's what boys do... you want to keep him around? play your part && i guarantee when he's ready to quit the single life he'll be calling your number first to wife you up. make it a point to learn && understand the politics of it all. sometimes he/she will have to go out to an event, or do something for the job && you can't be all crazy asking a bunch of unnecessary questions... KNOW YOUR PLACE. until he/she has decided personally to live the committed life you can't change them. so enjoy the person for who they are, not what they are && be honest with your feelings... the first step is accepting the "relationship" for what it is.
something to sleep on...
have you evaluated your situations lately? are you being honest with yourself and the other person, or are you leading them on, confusing and deceiving them? are you being overly obsessive, jealous for no reason-- or crossing boundaries that haven't been earned? make it a point to reflect on how you want your life to be lived && don't stray from getting everything that makes you happy.
i'm out!
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